Be A Gentleman and Don't Lie

When arriving in an unfamiliar situation it is solid advice that while waiting to acclimate "Be a gentleman and don't lie". 

While we are figuring out a new situation like a job it is advisable that we do not know enough of the work procedures or social dynamics to let our personality fly full force.  But what does a person do in the meantime because first impressions are important. 

Be kind and courteous to people, show up on time, and do what you say you will do. This is a great foundation to be able to pivot from in the future.  

Even if this is your final version of your work personality it will get you far. 

So if you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation and need a maxim to anchor on to then "Be a gentleman and don't lie"

Virtue Signaling Vs Effort

There are protests happening across the USA regarding the Israeli/Palestinian war.  

I fully support the right to peaceful protests and free speech.  

I just think it's dumb for the kids to do and especially if my kids were doing it. 

When it comes down to virtue signaling vs putting in effort it seems like virtue signaling wins most of the time. 

Instead of sleeping in a comfortable sleeping bag in the a secure part of the world. Go join the fight, enlist in a foreign legion, or volunteer to be part of the first responders in that part of the word. That moves the needle.  

Maybe it is going too far to ask people who can't open a pickle jar to fight or help directly. There are probably lower non-remunerative cost options. 

Join the PeaceCorp and build stoves for people in need. Join AmeriCorp and help disadvantaged communities right here at home. Instead of protesting for the afternoon, volunteer at a homeless shelter. Build a trail for your community to take walks. There are so many things are are infinitely more impactful and helpful.  

The kids that are keeping their focus, putting in the work to better themselves and maybe even their communities will find this time of their lives to have a high compounding rate of return.  Those that actually want to put in effort vs virtue signal will be in high demand. This has always been the case but it is a lesson that is constantly relearned.