Happy Birthday!
What a time to be alive. Using an em dash in your writing makes your writing look like AI.
People are forming into camps about what the future looks like with AI between doomerism and hyperbolic optimism.
I suppose I fall in the latter camp. Seems like the future is going to be great in ways we can't even imagine with the possibility of AI and robots.
The company I co-founded with Eric is going well. We are leveraging the technology to build something really cool. Something that is positive and helps communities. Presumably if we do our job the right way money will follow.
Kids are growing up.
Brett is a good man with a good heart. He looks out of the good of the group over his own personal interests. You don't see that much in people. He is going to be ok regardless as he has avoided the serious mistakes of drugs or crime. If he figures out how to apply max effort towards something he could accomplish a lot. School is such a small chapter in our lives. Brett really fell in with good friends this year in school with after school clubs and dungeons and dragons. It was a multiplier in his life that he started doing card games like Pokemon and Magic and board games like D&D. I hope he keeps that up as he gets older and has strong friendships. Brett only has one year of high school left - wild. It does not feel like 18 years since I found out I was going to be a Dad. He is the reason for everything in my life now. I needed to change as a person to be a father in his life so here I am.
Bode is a strong personality that likes to take on the world. I like to see the fight (some times - he doesn't have to do it all the time). He is very different from Brett - both could learn from each other. They are best friends and as Brett goes I imagine so goes Bode. Brett is a good for Bode and vice versa. Bode really came online this year with kindergarten with reading, writing, and math. He has a strong intellectual curiosity and it seems like one day he will want to see if he can knock me down. I will stay strong anticipating that day will come and I can teach him one more lesson.
Madison is sweet. Sweetness is needed in the house. She is smart and maybe the most athletic of the bunch. There are lot of advantages to being the youngest and I am very thankful for her. The fact that she choses to give me hugs at random steal my heart.
Mallory is doing well at work. There is always a certain level of stress she needs to maintain in her life but things are working well for her. She is getting deep into her career. She is a great Mother to our kids and the house is good because of her kindness and handling of emotions and personalities.
This year was mainly focused on the vanguard of this new AI technology and how it applies to so much. I podcasts less. It is simply too exciting to be using what little free time I have away from being a stay at home dad to not tinker around with coding, agents, and the adjacent technologies. The podcast will always be there and I enjoy it but it is more of a social tool than company building. Company building is exciting for now.
I am staying in 'shape', staying strong and avoiding injury. That last part seems to be the most important as I move forward through my 40's. Stay healthy so I can keep training.
Reading went well this year. More biographies like Socrates, Ben Franklin, Warren Buffet, Steve Jobs, Napoleon, J. Paul Getty, Hewlett and Packard, Dell. There was more but that is top of mind. I stopped taking notes on the books that I read. I don't 'remember' as much per book but I don't think that is the point. Books are like food. It nourishes you and becomes part of you without you quite knowing. You are different today that last month because of the food you eat and the things you read.
Money is always at the forefront of my mind but it is more on how best to deploy it now as compared to accumulate. I passed the break in the swim from shore and I can use the current to speed things along. Passing large amounts of capital to my kids seems not optimal. People seem to need to earn it for money to be used wisely. Things that are given are treated as a throwaway. I don't know how that looks but maybe getting a lake house before I am 50 would be good. Pass along how to enjoy being on the water and some memories as compared to a pile of money.
We built a sauna in our bathroom this year (Thanks for the help Alex). I enjoy it every time. It feels like an afternoon at the spa. Here is hoping it helps extend my life.
-Brad